Dreaming & Planning

I believe that balance does exist. I’ve been quiet about this for some time now, but I’ve had a rising desire to speak out with this currently unpopular belief.  Why is it unpopular?  Well, I think that many people were chasing balance in an unbalanced way which felt constrictive and not heart-centered. Thus, there was a backlash of thought leaders breaking out of that trap and stating that balance is a myth. I get it.  I think that this was a necessary part of the story line for all of us.

And now I think it’s time for a paradigm shift.  Even just holding faith that balance is possible, and that it does exist, is a strong place to stand in the world.  When we hold a belief that something is real and true, we are able to see it manifest itself in the world around us and seek avenues of creating that in our own lives.

Balance isn’t a strict adherence to any specific pie-chart convention of how we are supposed to be spending our time.

  • It’s about creating a life that feels good.  This may mean that you have seasons of hustle and seasons of family, friend, fun time within the day, within a week, or within a year.
  • It’s about checking in with your true desires and planning your life around them.
  • It’s about choosing consciously, instead of being swept up with the huge number of trivial tasks that present themselves.
  • It’s about integrating all the parts into a cohesive experience.
  • It’s about being flexible and solid at the same time.  Knowing that life will be ever changing and challenging, and that the more we can move with it, the more we will feel unshakable.

Having a balanced life doesn’t mean that every second is perfect.  I can honestly say I have life balance.  For me. And my life balance won’t look like your life balance.  My life balance is sometimes messy, sometimes organized, sometimes playful, sometimes serious, sometimes tearful, sometimes exuberant, sometimes productive, and sometimes spacious.  It’s all of these things, and it feels good.

One of the things that’s been vital for me to create this has been having a system that supports the whole, such as a way to dream from a connected place and to break down goals and strategies, all while infusing my life with healthy habits.  I’ve been refining this structure for years now and working with my husband, Dr. Peter Borten, to hone the practices for health and happiness to the ones that make the biggest difference.

Together we created our Rituals for Living Dreambook to help you plan and live your dreams.  Check it out at dreambook.vision.  We know you’re going to love it, and it will bring you toward your unique balance in life.

About The Author: Briana Borten